Friendship. How do we define it? Me? I don’t know. Haha! Is this the unity of souls? umm.. Maybe.
After thinking on what happened, I became conscious that we really can’t take each other’s extremities. And how comic it is, the realization occurred after how many years. Maybe it’s true, that blood is thicker than water, and because of that I need to be more restrained in breaking my silence. Yeah.. Today I learned, not every person who can make you smile and you can laugh with would understand how mean you could be. And with this, I suddenly miss my college friends. Those who can pace with my cruelty, those who can laugh and can spoil my brain wave. The person who could understand and make me recognize why we are different, why I am like this, and embracing every inch of my unkindness and have the courage to direct me.
Perhaps this is how I understood friendship. It’s not just unity of souls, it’s not being the same and having the same thought but it’s more of the acceptance no matter how drivel a talk could be, how different philosophy turning around, being bold to point, and being sensitive on how to show the way. I just remember what Margi said “iba kasi si abe, pero naiintindihan ko sya, kasi...”. And now I understand why I felt at ease after hearing those words, because I know, finally I found someone who would not just believe, but also finding why she does..
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